| The Winning
                     Ingredients - Part 3ESSENTIAL PRINCIPLES
                      
                        
                           
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                              |  |  9. 
                     Be the best partner a bowler like you could have.   We generally see two kinds of competitors. 
                     First are those who subtly, or overtly, self-punish every mistake they ever made.  Second are those
                     who recognize the humanness of athletic performance.  These athletes intelligently and supportively avoid
                     the arrogance of perfectionism.   If you are a self-punisher, you risk creating the kind of long-term pressure that choking is ultimately
                     made of.  Two other consequences for self-punishment are a seriously delayed learning curve, and completely
                     losing the joy that can be so much a part of any athletic endeavor.   If you are a good partner to yourself, you can
                     have it all.  You can learn and adjust at an accelerated rate.  You enjoy the game, thus
                     preventing burn out and having a better life.  And, if it matters to you, you become a heckuva lot more
                     fun to play with. 
                     
                   
                     
                     	    
                        
                           | With
                                 respect to weaker equipment, it is sort of common lingo to say, “straighter
                                 is greater”.  Yet, this really is often the truth.  If you
                                 look at bowling ball advertising nearly all of the ads promote the power of four-wheel drive balls.  Oil-churning, road-grating,
                                 chain saw balls rule.  It is silly really.  Yet bowling culture, particularly youth bowling, is like NASCAR, people
                                 like to see hard fast left turns. | 
                                 
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                           | When you mature to the point that you know that your “weak stuff”,
                                 is really your power stuff, you will have mastered one of the fundamental mental and physical game hurdles for advanced and
                                 beginning players alike. |  10. 
                     Fall in love with your spare ball, as well as your less reactive equipment. 
                     
                     	    
                        
                           | First
                                 off – there is distrust in the ability to push the
                                 ball away on a straight line and hit a stationary target.  Without extensively practiced experience, many bowlers simply
                                 don’t have confidence in their spare ball.   Second –
                                 big ball reaction, particularly at home, is sexy. It just looks so darn impressive to roll a casual big swinging hook at a
                                 4-pin, that on an easy pattern – it becomes a nonchalant way to show what you can do with a ball.   Third
                                 and lastly – it is laziness.  Few players have
                                 the discipline to throw plastic at every spare in practice.  Fewer still have the rigor to stop, focus, and treat spare
                                 shots in practice the way they intend to in competition. | 
                                 
                               |  There you
                     have it.  Like the old saying goes, “You play like you practice”. 
                     Practice winning by following the above 10 principles. You will not play worse, and in fact, if you put these ten into play
                     you will wring the most out of your game.  If bowling itself could promise you that, it would!Written by Dr. Dean Hinitz – The Mind Game – ©Bowling This Month Magazine (used by permission) Source material and quote drawn from Rotella, B., The
                     Golfer’s Mind, Free Press, New York.   Dr. Dean Hinitz is a clinical sports psychologist in Reno, Nevada, a
                     bowler, former competitive gymnast, and black belt in Japanese-style Karate.  His email address is hinitzlimited(at)aol.com |